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ramblings of a teenage guy

Have you ever seen a baby porcupine?

Fable of the porcupine - It was the cold...est winter ever.

Many animals died because of the cold. The porcupines, realizing the situation, decided to group together to keep warm. This way they covered and protected themselves; but the quills of each one wounded their closest companions. After awhile, they decided to distance themselves one from the other and they began to die, alone and frozen. So they had to make a choice:

either accept the quills of their companions or disappear from the Earth.

Wisely, they decided to go back to being together. They learned to live with the little wounds caused by the close relationship with their companions in order to receive the heat that came from the others. This way they were able to survive.

Moral of the story: The best relationship is not the one that brings together perfect people, but when each individual learns to live with the imperfections of others and can admire the other person's good qualities. Just learn to live with the Pricks in your life!





reunion dinner this year was a quick and simple affair , which was zi char at a coffeshop in tamp st 11 , new year comes earlier than u can expect :) may this year be a fruitful and happy 1 !!! went shopping with sis and fat sis , in the end bought a pair of hush puppies , better sleep early today , hope can get more ang bao this year :P

**peace and love**
james

its raining everyday nowdays :s , and im stuck at home doing some webpage my dad wanted me to do for the company , watched 天天好天 yesterday , i learnt one lesson from the movie , to 珍惜 the people around you ..your family , your loved ones .

its a nice movie , reccomend it :)

there may rain , but after the rain comes out a rainbow

Peace and love
jaymes











愛是恆久忍耐又有恩慈　愛是不嫉妒
愛是不自誇不張狂　不做害羞的事
不求自己的益處　不輕易發怒
不計算人家的惡　不喜歡不義只喜歡真理
凡事包容　凡事相信　凡事盼望
凡事忍耐　凡事要忍耐　愛是永不止息


I hope you understand what im trying to tell you , I REALLY REALLY LIKE YOU TEH PUI ING but i dun want to rush into a relationship with you , at least not now,because i cherish this thing we have. I know that if we go into a relationship now it would not last ,because we dont know each other well enough yet.If what we have is true , i belive that it will last and it will not die off ..undertstand nt !! small girl
I hope i made the right decision ....

with peace and love
**jaymes**
waiting since 25/01/2011

this unknown emotion im feeling ryt nw -

Many thoughts running through my head nw , many irrelevant random thoughts , cant focus ..cannot think properly , confused yet im trying to keep calm , im sad but no one can understand , i wish u knew how much u mean to me ...

lost in my own thoughts

the human heart sure is a complex thing , even the owner dosen't know y he's feeling the way he does .







when i was young , i loved cookin .. i think arh ,cooking actually can relive some stress , quite fun actually :) Learnt how to make gado gado , which is the only malay/indo cusine tt i know how to :P cool ryt ? it taste better then it looks , trust me ! Was a BUSY BUSY day cooking , peeling , chopping , boiling blah blah blah ~ I had free frog porridge as my reward :):):) mmmmmmmmmmm, super delicious !!


A Wealthy man does not mean he is happy,a Poor man does not mean he is in sorrow,it is actually how they lead their life that make them.

saw this quote on fb yesterday , and i found it so so so true ... this is something that i want to apply to my life. :)

went to indonesia with dharma on impulse on weds , and im feeling much much more better , more relaxed ..not so stressed . I think i have to admit that im more of a laidback person in life , not the kind of person tt will chiong day and night for a better car or a bigger house . Im easily contented with what i have , and i am thankful with what God has given me . I believe the One who feeds the sparrow , who clothes the flowers with beautiful colours will definately , of course take care of me :)

Happie 21th birhtday to lindis !! time passes so fast , siew ling ,me and her have already known each other for almost 3 years already ...really happy to have sisters like them . :) another reason to smile ..

so in conclusion , we may have many things to be sad or moody over ...but look closer , count your blessings and u'll find how blessed you are compared to others , another reason to smile :D

WITH PEACE AND LOVE
jaymes

4 DAYS HAVE PASSED SINCE 2010 became 2011 , Have alot of things i wanna say but cant type it out in words ...

God has been wonderful to me , blessing me with health , friends and family ...i do not really lack anything in my life come to think of it , money has never really been a problem to me .. but i dunno y i always worry about it , its like worrying for something that is really not very important to me.

Before 2011 , i kept thinking what my life would be like after army , and now im currently working for my pops , which actually feels quite sucky but on the other hand burden free. This is not going to permanent as i think im still quite lost somehow , trying to hear my calling ..to know what i should do .

This is what i feel that i want to improve on in 2011 about myself(i would not write it out in detail as its something that i want myself to know myself) :

1.GIVE MORE

2.Love/Care More

3.Live out my dreams

4.Get closer to Him

5.Active Learning

Yesterday night , i did a real stupid thing .... Bad way to start a new year , but i really dont feel like giving up ... too much info le , anyways i still believe this year has a way of working itself out for me :D



with peace and love
**jaymes**

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